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Saturday, 5 October 2013

Village Dwelling

They say that change is as good as a holiday, but our holiday in SA and moms holiday here brought a lot of change to life on Nosy Be.
Not only have the roads on the island been repaired, meaning no more potholes and cars slamming on breaks or swerving maniacally to avoid them, but we even had hot water in our shower for 3 weeks, and Serge ran a line and put a tap in for the well water, so no more hauling buckets out the well, we merely turned a tap. Its getting way too advanced here for us!

With the arrival of Allen and Casey, our little village was filling up, and a day later Lin and Malcolm arrived. The only Capetonions, but we welcomed them into the fold! Young David had met Lin in the supermarket and her and Malcolm are friends who do yacht delivieries, and had just come off a yacht that had come from Maritius via the Seychelles. Tough, I know. So they moved in and filled the final of the four bungalows we have here. Its been absolutely great! We all cook and eat together, the boys drink plenty of beers together, we pick up things from the markets for each other ..... Its just been a totally different place with a completely different vibe.

The boys have also done plenty spear fishing, so the little Kitching will be a genius of course with all those Omega-3s! Yay! David will write a dedicated blog to the 3 weeks of spearing they had the pleasure of!

Whats been great with knowing more people and having a group is that we have explored more too. We did a trip with Edith, Lin, young David and I around the island in an afternoon, and we stopped off at the Sacred tree. This tree has over 1 hectare of underground roots and the tree has cable stay roots from the ground up, so its just huge. Before we went in we were dressed up in local traditional dress as a sign of respect, so I got to learn how to tie the malagash saraong. We also had to enter and leave with our right foot first.

It was interestng hearing the story of the Sakalava people - that they wanted a sacred place and so named this tree the sacred tree (its not even indiginous but comes from India!!!). People come and pray here, and they believe that their spirits come to 'work' here once someone has passed away. But the spirits only work during the day, and only for four days a week - Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday (still, its more than when the person was alive!!!). They aren't there on a Tuesday, Thursday or Sunday, so make sure you don't take your wishes and prayers on those days. If you pray for something, like some good materials for a new house, and you get them, you have to bring a gift, maybe some food or a beer for the spirits. If its something big you get like a car or a whole house, then you have to bring a Zebu that you have sacraficed for this celebration, well you just bring its skull and some blood to leave for the spirits in thanks. 
It was rather amusing to get this deeper understanding of the mentality of the poeple here - kind of makes a lot of things make sense!!!

They also don't frown upon extra marital relationships. Children born from the married parents are the higher up on the food chain so to speak, but all others born to non married women or not from a husband and wife, are still considered to be the children of God and are not shunned from society, as in most cultures. Also makes a lot of things make more sense!

The tree has red and white 'ribbons' wrapped around it symbolising the two tribes, the red and the white blood of the Royals .... this bit all got a bit confusing and political so we tried not to pay too much attention to it!!

So with time tick tocking on, we have been frantically trying to sell the boat and quad, to no avail as yet. We have sanded the boat down and painted it again, so it now sparkles and looks fantastic! It was hot work, with the temps ever increasing, we certainly felt it in the hot sun!

We've also been trying to do some shopping - finally! We want to bring things back to fill our new home with and keep to our memories of our awesome time here in Mada alive!

I'm trying to sort the container out, but as with things here, change is the only constant - dates of departure change, fees change blah blah! I'd forgotten how mundane admin and dealing with other people could get! But hopefully it will be done and dusted this week so we can load it and wish it on its way as we leave on the 19th of October.

We decided that we didn't want to miss our 18 week scan, and our friends had told us that the Italian hospital has pretty good equipment and you can go for free, just make sure you have an appointment, and they had the golden ticket of the name and number of the Head Nurse there, Yasmine - wohoo!

So I called and made an appointment and off we went. We arrived and luckily she was waiting for us. In the doorway was a little registration table where I had my blood pressure taken and was weighed. It was here that I started to doubt the equipment as their scale read 2kg's lighter than mine! And mine is rubbish! But it was clean and the staff friendly, as Yasmine linked her arm thorugh mine and lead us to the ultra sound room. The sonographer was there and expecting us - which was a good sign. I'm at the stage where I have one skirt (thats covered in paint from painting the boat) and my shorts and trousers don't do up, so I was in a dress for the scan, so whip it up over my belly and they get to work. Granted they could see what was going on and we saw a double arm wave from baby Kitching which was cool, the rest was pretty grainy and blurry, but we got the reassurance that everything is good - and that we're having a GIRL!

Once the sonographer was done, Yasmine who is standing at the foot of the bed, turns and leans with her arms onto my legs and starts having a fat chat about nothing much - like we've been best friends for years! It was hilarious, David and I are just looking at each other trying not to giggle as I sit there in my pants, dress up to my chest trying to understand what exactly we're chatting about! It ended with her saying I should bring her a souvenier sometime, and that she'll ring us to get together next Sunday .... erm... ok then! So we gave her a little tip for the freebie scan and were on our way!

We had heard that the annual Nosy Be regatta was on one Saturday, so the community jumped on scooters and quad and headed own to La Marina in Crater Bay. We arrived to find we had pretty much ... mised the boat! We found Edith walking up the road on our way there and she said it was all over, but it was Lukes birthday (he only remembered that morning) and the boys were already a few beers down, so Edith jumped on the quad with us and returned to La Marina. The boys turned up with their own beers plus a bottle of rum. We ordered a bunch of soft drinks and ice and proceeded to drink our own booze - well soft drinks for me! No one blinked or commented, brilliant. What the boys didn't realise at the time was that David had picked up the 52 proof bottle of rum, not the 40 proof, so the party ramped up rather quickly but fizzled out just as quick as they drank the whole bottle between 3 in less than an hour and once home the boys passed out hahahaha! The girls were stoked as it meant an early night without too much drunken madness! Oh how having a baby changes one!

Another couple have also joined the community, a young French couple Nathalie and Khoen. They've only ben married for 3 months and Nathalie was keen to pick up a teaching post somewhere different. So Serge put them in the big house while the bungalows were full, but now they've moved into one of the bungalows. Khoen has picked up some temporary work cooking in a Gargote owned by one of the teachers from Nathalie's school and her Malagash Rasta husband. So on Sunday we headed over to Madirokely, and we sat in this gorgeous, simple restaurant on the beach and had lunch cooked by Khoen. We knew he was a good cook as him and Nathalie had already had all 8 of us over for dinner and had put on a spectacular meal with home made samoosas - chicken and fruit, sushi, cantonese style rice and delicious chicken and veg kebabs! All cooked on one gas ring!

On the Sunday there was frog on the menu! We didn't go for it but Nathalie did and we tried it - seriously, it tastes just like chicken and was pretty good!
The bonus to the day was that Serge drove us there and back, so it was a super lazy Sunday!

We've had a couple of evenings out this week with us and Lin. Its such a rareity that we felt pretty strange being out at night! The first was our young friend Pierrot invited us to watch his dance performance at Nosy Lodge. He had organised to put on a mini Michael Jackson dance show for the hotel guests. Eric, the owner has been the one buying all the fish the boys have caught, and he is smoking it to perfection - truly delicious. Anyway, he's not only bought the fish but also given us some of the smoked fish to try. So David took him over a jar of his home made sweet chilly sauce. Its divine but pretty HOT. You can only get birds eye and scotch bonnet chillies here! 
So when we arrived for Pierrots dance spectacular, Eric said he had something for us to try - he is a chef by training - but for all his guests that evening he was serving a little shot glass of a creamy fish he bought from us and spinach with a drop of Davids magic sauce! Needless to say it was amazing, and Eric also gave us complementary mocktails! Pierrot was great - he has such potential this kid - he is relentless at trying to be something and make a good life for himself through acting, not asking. Its truly not the Malagash culture to be like that and he is a gem! It was very sweet watching the guests make a big deal of him during and after his performance! 

Our next night out was with Ross, his colleague Sarah and some clients of theirs who have just arrived. Ross is showing Sarah the ropes here in Madagascar, so this time David and I were out numbered with all the Capetonions with just us being from Durbs! We had sunset drinks at La Residence and then went to a local restaurant, Papa Babeto, in Ambataloaka - I had calamari which was absolutely delicious! After dinner the others all went for another drink, but Lin and I hopped on the quad and headed home, David would come later on Lins scooter - so another nice thing with having new friends in our community!

The next morning at 9 we all went snorkelling - no wet suits this time! Its finally warmed up again - but also my wet suit doesn't fit over my bump anymore, so thats worked out well!

The last 3 Saturdays saw the community gradually getting smaller, the first leavers were Allen and Malcolm, then it was Luke and Casey and young David, and lastly this morning was Lin. We've done nice farewell dinners with everyone and for Lin's, we did a vegetarian extravaganza! It was pretty cool and we did pretty well with lots of different tasty treats - Khoen and Nathalie did veggie sushi, David made a rice noodle salad with mango, red onions and peanuts, I made bean and potatoe cakes with a salsa and Lin made her now famous lentil salad!

It is strange though, as now that we don't have any projects besides to pack and go, which we can't start yet, we kind of wake up each morning and ask, hey brain, what we gonna do today? The days seem to stretch out in front of us like they never did before. I guess a part of us keeps saying - make the most of it, with baby on the way, we will never know peace and boredom again! And its not such a bad place to be bored - sunshine, sea and simplicity.

To releive some of our boredom, we went with Lin for a last snorkel yesterday afternoon. As is with every afternoon, the wind was up and boy was it rough! More like adventure snorkeling and not the calm serene conditions you'd expect. Made it a bit more of a challenge and fun at least!

So now, with just two weeks to go, its all about admin and chores and ticking things off the list - selling the quad and boat being first priorities, get the container sorted, pack and go! We've sorted Injas travel back, so will miss him as he will be a month behind us ... but at least it means he's coming home too!

I guess the last and final Nosy Be adventure blog will be written from our next destination, Kloof, South Africa!


Like and Malcolm enjoying the island

The two Davids off to sell some fish

Our village! Plus Loic who'd come to join for the festivities

The location of the sacred tree

In my traditional dress for the sacred tree

Edith, me, David, Lin and some other tourists

Walking through the cable stay root system of the tree

Where we had the explanation given to us

The cute little Lemurs there

Eating chocolate biscuits David gave them!


The original journey by pirogue by the Indonesians who first settled here. The journey was done again by some westerners a few years ago in a similar boat. It took more than 90 days - hectic!

David, Lin, Edith and me on the island tour

20 weeks pregnant - half way!

Our veggie extravaganza meal!

Cute little lizard sharing breakfast with us

David charming the pets - Inja, Odi and Liko! Check out Inja giving the paw!!!

Amaaaazing kingfish curry

A day on beautiful Andilana beach

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Tuesday, 10 September 2013

Moms visit to Nosy Be!

Moms visit was absolutely divine. We spent lots of time suntanning, walking on the beach and exploring the area so mom could see it all and take it in in its entirety.

We went to Andilana for a day trip and saw our friends Loic and Nelly who own Blue Vision Diving. Spent a few hours lying on the beach and soaking up the sunshine. We did a snorkeling trip to Tanikely and made a good long day of it, only thing is that every afternoon the wind picks up making the sea a little rough - our boat trip back was so bouncy that mom and I had bruised bums the next day and our entire bodies were stiff from bracing against the movement!

We did a car trip up Mount Passot and took Inja with us. He was hilarious - second time ever in a car and he just chiled out with his chin resting on the window sill and his little paw paws on the arm rest! On the way back down the mountain our car was accosted by two cheeky litle lemurs! Never seen them there before but they raced to the car and jumped all over it - looking for bananas we assume but were out of luck with us.

Mom even endured a quad ride into Hellville, but preferred the taxi brusse service, even though the one we got into swayed from side to side the entire journey home!
We did the long walk from Palm Beach to Madirokely for sundowners and a bit of the action at Tatie Chris! Loved the people watching and the antics that goes on, its seriously a must do on the Nosy Be list. We carried on up the beach to Ambataloaka and hit Boabab for dinner where I had the worlds largest burger! It was amazing!

We hit the Tana market that came to town, and the Artisans markets too, which was good for me as I've not really done any shopping here, so it was good to get to places I"d not yet seen but had wanted to.

All too soon moms visit was over and we were saying goodbye and crossing fingers that the Air Mada delays weren't too bad and wouldn't include an over nighter in Tana. Luckily the delays were there but not the over nighter! It was the first goodbye in 15 years that wasn't too bad knowing we'd see each other again in less than 8 weeks!

Two days after mom left and Davids Madagascar dream came true!! Ryan had put him in touch with another South African, also called David, who had come out to Mada to work in a spear fishing charter company, Orca Diving. Unfortunately and very sadly, the owner Craig Scott passed away from Cerebral malaria 3 days after David had arrived to work with him, so David had been taking the clients out who had booked and trying to keep tings going in the wake of Craigs death. 

So now David was free, had another month on his visa and just needed someone to go spearing with! So he moved into one of the bngalows across from us, his friend Luke hopped on a plan to come and play, and the boys have been sorting out some spearing trips. The only problem being, that when you put three chilled out fun living guys together in an awesomely chilled place like Mada, sometimes beer wins!!! So they have gone on one all day trip, and had a couple of shorter and shore entries, and all I can say is, in that over a week, we've only had two fish to eat, had a few veggie meals and had to even resort to pork sausages!!!
The competition board is up and David Kitching is laughing all the way at the 'whipper snappers' as he calls them, as he is in the lead, not only having caught the most fish to date, but also having sold 3 which puts him in lead with the cash earnings too! (at this point I can let you know that a total of 5 fish have only been speared in over a week, between 3 guys!)
So this week, yet another spearo joins the crew - Allen who is part of the team at the Rob Allen Dive Factory (not the Allen in Rob Allen!). I think the older more mature influence of Allen may actually turn the tables to more spearing trips, less beer drinking! I also think that due to the younger boys bodies rejecting lifestyle (and Lukes girlfriend Casey's arrival also on Tuesday) will mean that I better start getting inventive with fish recipes, and preparing womb service for a massive fish dinner influx! Fingers crossed at least - I was planning on this Kitching being a genius with all the brain food from fish!

One of the sad things with us leaving is that, as with all things, its taken time to make friends and meet people, and in the last couple of months we have really started to make good friends - and now we are leaving - its so typical. We went for dinner at Nelly and Loics - and Nelly is leaving this month to go back to France and have her baby, but they will be returning to the dive centre of course. But if we weren't leaving, they had asked us to manage their dive centre for the 3 plus months while they were away! That was totally our plan when coming here - to be able to help and cover for people in exactly thay kind of way!
Yesterday we had a braai / BBQ at ours with Bob, Stefan, his dad and an old friend of theirs, along with Luke and David and Edith who is the FnB manageress from Sakatia Lodge, who has been here for 7 years. Its so great to have other women in the fold as its mostly all men here! Again - such a pity all this is happening so late, but we are at least glad we are getting the chance to make new and good friends and as we set out to do - make the most of the last few weeks we have.

The countdown is going way too fast, and now with less than 6 weeks to go, I'm starting to get a speed wobble. The weather is perfect, the sea water warming up, the company entertaining .... what more could we ask for as we do our final countdown ...? OK - maybe a few more fish to eat!!!

Fish cakes and salad for lunch

Lovin the Zebu

The new additions to Serges garden

The stalls at Andilana

Two monkeys

The Zebu getting their weekly Sunday morning bath

Pizza day!

Madirokely and a Durban yacht

The hooligans at Tatie Chris

Family portrait on top of Mount Passot

Gorgeous views at the top

Inja chilling on his ride

The Lemurs

Beach day at Nosy Tanikely

The view from the lighthouse on Nosy Tanikely, Nosy Komba in the background


The little shop Pascals next door to Serge's place - great for cold beer and eggs!



Where are the Kitchings???

So where have we been? Its been a little crazy round the Kitching world. Cath and Ryan arrived back from work and travels and invited us to go and spend 3 nights with them on Nosy Komba. The boys were planning on going fishing, south to Caster Banks 120km's away, and us girls were planning on doing little more than chilling out! Oh how tough life in the islands is! Cath was actually just recovering from a bout of Typhoid, which seems to be doing the rounds here, and me ... well I was just up for another mid week mini break! This making a person business is tiring!

David and Ryan didn't have a spectacualrly successful fishing trip - Ryan was more keen on getting some awesome filming in, but the weather was dull and cold and the fish decided to not be around, they were searching for Marlin and other sword fish. David still loved it though as it was all a new experience for him. Especially as on their first stop to check out a site, Antoinin and David were in the water - still on the surface, and Antoinin lifts his head and shouts - HAMMERHEADS! Literally 6 meters away was a school of 15 hammerhead sharks swimming past! You don't get much more exciting than that .... well OK you do ... when you look down and see two 3 meter Zambezi sharks checking you out from below!

Well I didn't get to do toooo much relaxing because we were due for the first important 12 week scan, and we couldn't get it done locally on Nosy Be, so would have had to fly to Tana / Diego or even Reunion. Looking at the prices, it seemed to make more and more sense for us to rather fly to South Africa - where we are planning on having the baby - and having the scan there, and at the same time being able to meet the doctor and do some of the neccesasary formailities.
So mom and my cousin Lauren (who has her own travel agency) helped us get it all organised, and we arrived back from Ryan and Caths on Thursday afternoon and flew to South Africa on Saturday morning ... well that was the plan, however Air Madagascar decided they liked us here so much that instead of leaving Tana at 10am on Saturday morning, they cancelled our plane at 8pm (yes, after we had sat around the airport since 9am) and put a load of us up for the night in local hotels! Grrrrr.

We finally arrived in JHB and Mom and Dad picked us up and we stayed at my cousins Leigh and George. Much excitement for David and I as Leigh and George had prepared a delicious meal with all things we hadn't had in 5 months - like creamed spinach, delicious fat South African steaks, ice cream and much more. I can see this little stint in SA being a kg adder!!

We drove back from JHB which was great for us to have a good catch up with mom and dad and to start acclimatising to the South African winter ... brrrrr. 10 degrees during the day! A far cry from our usual mid 20 - 30's!

So this wasn't a holiday return - it was a working excursion. We have decided to move back to South Africa to have the baby and stay for a year or so, probably more if we can find a way to support it! We just thought it makes the world of sense to have our families around us for support - both sets of our parents, Davids brothers family, and my cousin Lauren and family live in a triangle of 5 kms apart from each other! Its also great that we can provide all our friends in SA with a laugh as they are all over the tough days with little babies and are just starting to get thier lives back (as they put it) and are now laughing at us as we just start this new adventure!! Thanks guys!

So while we were 'home' we thought it made sense to do a bit of house hunting. Get an idea of prices and whats out there. We started with very specific requirements of what we wanted and what we were going to spend, and the day we left we put an offer in for a gorgeous house that was nothing in our specifications and way above our initial price! Oh well .... its worth it! So the offer was accepted and now we have to try and do all the legalities and financials from the island. This should prove interesting and challenging. The first challenge was having to race to a lawyer on the way to the airport to get a Power of Attorney for Davids dad drawn up to act on our behalf for any signatures etc! 

Our trip home was crazy as always and awesome to see everyone - even a special treat of seeing Geoff, Laura and little Dylan from Dubai who were in SA the same time! Just seeing everyone and spending time with our families brought it home (no pun intended) all the more of the good decision we have made to go back and share this next stage in our lives in the place we grew up. It was even more special that we got to take all four grandparents into the scan with us and they got to see the active little baby rolling around and stretching its little arms to say hi! We have missed out on a lot of family over the last 15 years not being in South Africa,
but we have had an incredible time and done so much in the UK, Dubai and now Madagascar. We hope that we can stay strong and bring what we have learned and picked up to continue a more simple way of life, keeping healthy and staying open minded!

So now we are back in Mada for the last two months of our island paradise adventure. Mom has come back with us for 10 days to see what its all about, and I can see she uderstands exactly why we have done it. She is so relaxed and loving the sunshine, amazing healthy food and divine Madagascar shopping!!! hahaha, I mean people!
Once mom goes it will be chaos trying to do admin and organising from the country of Mora Mora (easy easy / slowly slowly) as we try and get Inja sent to South Africa, along with another container of the little bit of stuff we still have, as we will need every scrap to fill the house we are buying!

Well Davids gone off to get some fish for dinner - yesterday he gave the guys at the hotel building site an 8kg fish, which they were totally STOKED with! They have seen him walk past for nearly 6 months with fish of all sizes and shapes and finally it was their turn to get one!
We made a decision to make sure we make the absolute most of the last couple of months left here and to make sure we finish doing all the things we set out to do in March when we arrived. So watch this space, I have a feeling its going to be jam packed!
David and Biko on Nosy Komba


The boys loading onto the boat for a days fishing


Their haul

Ryan giving a fish cleaning demo to his staff ... again!

Freeeeezing in Tana airport

The Fords strapping Dylan to David for some practise time!

Umhloti Beach

The boys

Crayfish feast thanks to Geoff


Gabi at her ballet concert, the bunny second from left!

Fifi in her dance - kneeling on the left


Our beautiful nieces with Greg and Clem (mom and dad)